steven, that's tough my friend. get the right help asap brother. she will need help to stop the affair and keep it ended. here is a series on ending the affair you both should read: https://www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/ending-an-affair-step-one-make-the-decision
that will help big time. but she need something like the hope for healing course on line or you both should consider coming to the ems weekend. she won't be able to simply 'turn if off like a light switch' as affairs don't work that way. i hope that helps you. reach out anytime.
that's tough
steven, that's tough my friend. get the right help asap brother. she will need help to stop the affair and keep it ended. here is a series on ending the affair you both should read: https://www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/ending-an-affair-step-one-make-the-decision
that will help big time. but she need something like the hope for healing course on line or you both should consider coming to the ems weekend. she won't be able to simply 'turn if off like a light switch' as affairs don't work that way. i hope that helps you. reach out anytime.