The betrayed do not realize how many triggers there are in our daily lives. I'm four years out and come across them hourly. I've sold cars, a house, moved cross country and I'm still haunted daily and usually hourly. It could be seeing the same type of car you sold, a song you heard during reconciliation, a place you were while the affair was happening, an old photo...they are everywhere.
They happen randomly. My partner will often ask what's wrong...9 times out of 10, it's a triggered memory. It just hurts and makes our hearts ache. So please have patience. Understand that it happens all day, every day. We will get through it. All we need is a little patience.
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The betrayed do not realize how many triggers there are in our daily lives. I'm four years out and come across them hourly. I've sold cars, a house, moved cross country and I'm still haunted daily and usually hourly. It could be seeing the same type of car you sold, a song you heard during reconciliation, a place you were while the affair was happening, an old photo...they are everywhere.
They happen randomly. My partner will often ask what's wrong...9 times out of 10, it's a triggered memory. It just hurts and makes our hearts ache. So please have patience. Understand that it happens all day, every day. We will get through it. All we need is a little patience.