When he thinks of our 25 years together and how I lied to him, because my story is extremely similar to yours, he ask me if I planned to lie to him. The problem with me is I start justifying and explaining and it infuriates him. Then he accuses me of more lies. We are stuck in this cycle. I have taken the course. I am so alone. He is so angry and distant. I don’t know why it is so hard for me to take ALL of the responsibility for the way he feels. What is wrong with me?
Being reminded
When he thinks of our 25 years together and how I lied to him, because my story is extremely similar to yours, he ask me if I planned to lie to him. The problem with me is I start justifying and explaining and it infuriates him. Then he accuses me of more lies. We are stuck in this cycle. I have taken the course. I am so alone. He is so angry and distant. I don’t know why it is so hard for me to take ALL of the responsibility for the way he feels. What is wrong with me?