I'm 2 years out from discovery and what you have said here could have been written by me. In my case, my wife's physical affair on multiple occasions while she was on business trips only found out by me because of seeing a text on her phone. The part you said about her being disconnected, physical touch and positive words of affirmation, that's exactly my reality. She is disconnected, only seems to care about things that are about her, no sense or ability to be compassionate, encouraging or positive with me. I think the affair is just the ultimate act of selfishness showing how she can only think about herself. Can she ever truly change?
You wrote this 5 years ago, if you see this, can you let me know how you're doing?
Wondering
I'm 2 years out from discovery and what you have said here could have been written by me. In my case, my wife's physical affair on multiple occasions while she was on business trips only found out by me because of seeing a text on her phone. The part you said about her being disconnected, physical touch and positive words of affirmation, that's exactly my reality. She is disconnected, only seems to care about things that are about her, no sense or ability to be compassionate, encouraging or positive with me. I think the affair is just the ultimate act of selfishness showing how she can only think about herself. Can she ever truly change?
You wrote this 5 years ago, if you see this, can you let me know how you're doing?