Now what

I understand that it’s tough when their anger or hurt seems to get in the way of our repair. I’ve in those same shoes. One thing that I was reminded of and will need to see again is that I don’t get to dictate her anger. I caused the hurt and anger. She isn’t trying to shame me- and just right now I’m think I’m probably shaming myself. I twist her words and show how she’s digging at me.... really she’s just crying out for love and I missed the chance... again

Good luck