So are you saying that if it were you, you would have left the relationship? I am feeling so ashamed of myself for staying...obviously Hope for Healing and two rounds of EMS just didn't stick with him. I am judged badly by so many friends and family for staying but I do so because I made vows and keep my commitments. I have integrity. However, that being said, Maybe I should consider just throwing in the towel. This is not what I wanted when I said my vows 38 years ago. I am so unhappy bitter and resentful and wouldn't be this way if he had been forthcoming from the beginning. He appears to want the marriage but just won't talk about anything anymore without a major verbal onslaught. Thank you so much for your insight and honesty.
So are you saying that if it
So are you saying that if it were you, you would have left the relationship? I am feeling so ashamed of myself for staying...obviously Hope for Healing and two rounds of EMS just didn't stick with him. I am judged badly by so many friends and family for staying but I do so because I made vows and keep my commitments. I have integrity. However, that being said, Maybe I should consider just throwing in the towel. This is not what I wanted when I said my vows 38 years ago. I am so unhappy bitter and resentful and wouldn't be this way if he had been forthcoming from the beginning. He appears to want the marriage but just won't talk about anything anymore without a major verbal onslaught. Thank you so much for your insight and honesty.