I couldn't help but think while reading your comment, what boundaries have you set up? After he confessed about an affair, were there some agreements made between the two of you? For example, you said to him if you go to any other woman for physical intimacy besides me from this point forward you will have to move out of the house Or (and don't say this unless you're really willing to do it) I will file for divorce. This is not extreme...you are worth total faithfulness. I'm not saying new things from the past won't come up, but if he saw a prostitute after Dday, then you have to value and protect yourself. You can't use religion as your cover to not act. I say this as someone who has lived this.
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I couldn't help but think while reading your comment, what boundaries have you set up? After he confessed about an affair, were there some agreements made between the two of you? For example, you said to him if you go to any other woman for physical intimacy besides me from this point forward you will have to move out of the house Or (and don't say this unless you're really willing to do it) I will file for divorce. This is not extreme...you are worth total faithfulness. I'm not saying new things from the past won't come up, but if he saw a prostitute after Dday, then you have to value and protect yourself. You can't use religion as your cover to not act. I say this as someone who has lived this.