After reading your post, I'm trying to understand if your wife is really sick as you mentioned. My gut feeling is that she is not ill, but when she disengaged with her AP, there was a grieving of the absence of her discovered sexual excitement. Maybe subconsciously she is resentful for that removal and is kind of numb with regards to sex and is in a zombie state, accepting the defeat of surrendering her sex life. Maybe I'm wrong, but you probably have more evidence to either reinforce or negative this perspective. Hope you both feel loved by one another, even without the presence of sex. To healing 🙂
Is she really sick?
After reading your post, I'm trying to understand if your wife is really sick as you mentioned. My gut feeling is that she is not ill, but when she disengaged with her AP, there was a grieving of the absence of her discovered sexual excitement. Maybe subconsciously she is resentful for that removal and is kind of numb with regards to sex and is in a zombie state, accepting the defeat of surrendering her sex life. Maybe I'm wrong, but you probably have more evidence to either reinforce or negative this perspective. Hope you both feel loved by one another, even without the presence of sex. To healing 🙂