laila, i was an idiot early on. i was also paralyzed by grief till someone took me to the woodshed. it can happen if he gets the right help. what actions have you taken? bootcamp? ems online? ems weekend? what will he do and what are you willing to do recovery work wise, and we'll start there.....
it's completely normal that we see what we were in danger of losing, AFTER we come out of the affair fog. anyone that says that's not true has never been an unfaithful spouse and never been in the darkness of our own confusion, shame and self hatred. i'm sorry to be so direct, but there is hope for you, but hope will flourish in the right setting of expert help. how can i help with making suggestions for you. what will he do?
not so fast...
laila, i was an idiot early on. i was also paralyzed by grief till someone took me to the woodshed. it can happen if he gets the right help. what actions have you taken? bootcamp? ems online? ems weekend? what will he do and what are you willing to do recovery work wise, and we'll start there.....
it's completely normal that we see what we were in danger of losing, AFTER we come out of the affair fog. anyone that says that's not true has never been an unfaithful spouse and never been in the darkness of our own confusion, shame and self hatred. i'm sorry to be so direct, but there is hope for you, but hope will flourish in the right setting of expert help. how can i help with making suggestions for you. what will he do?