I love this. As a betrayed spouse, there are days I feel like a stranger to myself. Loss of control of emotions is frightening. The terrible guilt, shame, pain and internal strife caused when you can’t seem to control yourself can be unbearable. Being almost two years out from original d-day and there are still moments that I lose myself. My spouse looks at me with concern as if I may be broken beyond repair. So we sit there in our mutual shame and seem hopeless. Thank you for giving so much hope and shining a light on the body science that fuels the trauma.
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I love this. As a betrayed spouse, there are days I feel like a stranger to myself. Loss of control of emotions is frightening. The terrible guilt, shame, pain and internal strife caused when you can’t seem to control yourself can be unbearable. Being almost two years out from original d-day and there are still moments that I lose myself. My spouse looks at me with concern as if I may be broken beyond repair. So we sit there in our mutual shame and seem hopeless. Thank you for giving so much hope and shining a light on the body science that fuels the trauma.