Thank you so much for this video and part 1. Perhaps it’s because of the timing, but these really hit home. My husband has some of the traits of a sex addicti, and spent a few years acting out. He took lying to new depths but eventually I think we may have gotten to the truth. The problem now is that he seems to feel that all is well now that it’s out. In fact, he often says that since he has answered my questions he doesn’t understand why we ever have to talk about it, and why any work is necessary to repair our marriage. How do I get him to understand that you can’t hurt someone that deeply and have it all go away because you said you’re sorry? He buys books but doesn’t read them, he has seen several different therapists - each one time, he watches your videos, but nothing seems to sink in. Thank you for any advice!
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Thank you so much for this video and part 1. Perhaps it’s because of the timing, but these really hit home. My husband has some of the traits of a sex addicti, and spent a few years acting out. He took lying to new depths but eventually I think we may have gotten to the truth. The problem now is that he seems to feel that all is well now that it’s out. In fact, he often says that since he has answered my questions he doesn’t understand why we ever have to talk about it, and why any work is necessary to repair our marriage. How do I get him to understand that you can’t hurt someone that deeply and have it all go away because you said you’re sorry? He buys books but doesn’t read them, he has seen several different therapists - each one time, he watches your videos, but nothing seems to sink in. Thank you for any advice!