Right where I'm at...

I've been chasing my wife for months after her affair became known. Trying to "win" her to only result in utter failure and heartbreak. This past weekend she admitted the "love you/like you but no longer in love with you". Brutal. I moved into the guest room. We barely talk right now. But... I'm no longer texting cute things - hoping she will reciprocate (she barely, ever did). No longer telling her I love her in every conversation. It's very hard on me. I feel lost. I feel almost hopeless but I've come to the point where I need to be chosen (even a little) for us to move forward.