I found this online article very useful for many life issues. The one that immediately comes to mind involves politics. How can half the public view a politician as wonderful while the other half believe that same person is atrocious? maybe it’s all about the lense. If your lense is skewed to the right or left, life in general can be very dark or equally sunny. Sometimes it just takes a change of glasses. It would seem that there is no difference in a political bent versus a marriage. You just might need to get a new prescription. Glasses with lenses that focus on appreciation.
The lense
I found this online article very useful for many life issues. The one that immediately comes to mind involves politics. How can half the public view a politician as wonderful while the other half believe that same person is atrocious? maybe it’s all about the lense. If your lense is skewed to the right or left, life in general can be very dark or equally sunny. Sometimes it just takes a change of glasses. It would seem that there is no difference in a political bent versus a marriage. You just might need to get a new prescription. Glasses with lenses that focus on appreciation.