This article is right on point. It's been a year and a half and although I believe the affair was over when I first found out, he has not done anything to make me feel safe. His decisions thereafter has left me to feel alone and not his top priority. I hung on to the belief that things would improve, but I slowly begin to see that he was really focused on how things were perceived toward him and his family. Yes the family. So while we still talk (as we are living apart), I have no expectations anymore. I have learned when it comes to him and his families decisions, I don't stand a chance
I can't move forward when he can't admit that a lot of people made some bad decisions AND he is NOT supportive of those decisions. .
No longer feel safe
This article is right on point. It's been a year and a half and although I believe the affair was over when I first found out, he has not done anything to make me feel safe. His decisions thereafter has left me to feel alone and not his top priority. I hung on to the belief that things would improve, but I slowly begin to see that he was really focused on how things were perceived toward him and his family. Yes the family. So while we still talk (as we are living apart), I have no expectations anymore. I have learned when it comes to him and his families decisions, I don't stand a chance
I can't move forward when he can't admit that a lot of people made some bad decisions AND he is NOT supportive of those decisions. .