Great Article and I agree on most parts however, you don't talk about those of us where were betrayed, wanted to work on the marriage and were forced to deal with abandonment and divorce on the heels of our unfaithful spouses leaving us for their affair partners. I do not take divorce lightly and hate the impact on my young kids however, sometimes these affairs do not blow up in time to salvage the marriage. And all the work my soon to be ex-husband has to do is all on him. I can only work on me, his issues are his to fix - if he ever chooses to take responsibility and look in the mirror.
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Great Article and I agree on most parts however, you don't talk about those of us where were betrayed, wanted to work on the marriage and were forced to deal with abandonment and divorce on the heels of our unfaithful spouses leaving us for their affair partners. I do not take divorce lightly and hate the impact on my young kids however, sometimes these affairs do not blow up in time to salvage the marriage. And all the work my soon to be ex-husband has to do is all on him. I can only work on me, his issues are his to fix - if he ever chooses to take responsibility and look in the mirror.