You go for it, as the betrayed I think you are doing the best you can and that is absolutely the thing to do. It has taken me 10 months to shift my pain and it is slowly happening now that my partner has finally stepped up to the line to talk of his actions and to own them. Every little bit he does to make things better helps even if the pain doesn't go away immediately. Your partner will look back once she has recovered and will remember the kind things you did each step of the way through your recovery so be brave and keep doing them no matter the rejection. Doing small but thoughtful acts will make a difference. good luck.
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You go for it, as the betrayed I think you are doing the best you can and that is absolutely the thing to do. It has taken me 10 months to shift my pain and it is slowly happening now that my partner has finally stepped up to the line to talk of his actions and to own them. Every little bit he does to make things better helps even if the pain doesn't go away immediately. Your partner will look back once she has recovered and will remember the kind things you did each step of the way through your recovery so be brave and keep doing them no matter the rejection. Doing small but thoughtful acts will make a difference. good luck.