I feel the same..my husband had multiple affairs and seeked them on dating sites etc..I felt do dirty and alone..How dare he! if he would of only talked to me!! I NEVER thought there was a problem.. I actually thought he was going thru mid life crisis then thought he had some medical issues and felt compasion for him!! and here he was having affairs... I kick myself for letting him back in ...it was broken..and to boot he told me he did not love me any more any way...how can someone do that to some one after being married for 14 years and 6 or 7 years dating BEFORE that... I just dont understand ..prob never will..Divorce is final.. He hates me now and I still love him..How can that even be.
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I feel the same..my husband had multiple affairs and seeked them on dating sites etc..I felt do dirty and alone..How dare he! if he would of only talked to me!! I NEVER thought there was a problem.. I actually thought he was going thru mid life crisis then thought he had some medical issues and felt compasion for him!! and here he was having affairs... I kick myself for letting him back in ...it was broken..and to boot he told me he did not love me any more any way...how can someone do that to some one after being married for 14 years and 6 or 7 years dating BEFORE that... I just dont understand ..prob never will..Divorce is final.. He hates me now and I still love him..How can that even be.