It has been just under 2 years that I found the emails. We immediately went for counseling (individually) and at our disclosure he was still lying. He refuses to tell me who the affair was with. Without this information I am living in limbo. He swears they weren’t intimate. The emails say otherwise. Covid hit before we could meet with our counselors again after the disclosure. We’ve been trying but I can’t get past the deceit. If he’d have come clean it would be behind us now. He thinks everything is ok. It will never be okay until I know the truth. Healing for me is impossible without all the pieces. I’m ready to bail on our marriage.
Forgiveness when he still withholds information
It has been just under 2 years that I found the emails. We immediately went for counseling (individually) and at our disclosure he was still lying. He refuses to tell me who the affair was with. Without this information I am living in limbo. He swears they weren’t intimate. The emails say otherwise. Covid hit before we could meet with our counselors again after the disclosure. We’ve been trying but I can’t get past the deceit. If he’d have come clean it would be behind us now. He thinks everything is ok. It will never be okay until I know the truth. Healing for me is impossible without all the pieces. I’m ready to bail on our marriage.