Hi, I feel very depressed and is searching for some support, comfort and guidance during this difficult time. Long story short, it was my birthday this past spring and my husband and I got into a pretty bad fight over parenting. Wouldn’t be the first time we had disagreements over parenting or just regular arguments in general. So anyways my husband got so upset after this he left me at home on my birthday with our plans now ruined and he went to a strip club to go cheat on me. We wasn’t speaking since my birthday and he decided he no longer wanted to be with me and he wanted a separation not a divorce, within this week of not speaking he contacted women from his past, specifically the one he lost his virginity to and he started hanging out with her, going on dates, had her in our car, etc… next Month is now his birthday and she planned his birthday, something intimate like a spa place and couples massage and then of course it led to staying at a hotel where he had unprotected sexual intercourse with her. My heart is forever wounded, I have never been so sad shocked hurt in my entire life. I have never been in such disbelief. During this time not only did he cheat on me but he also just destroyed any life I had in me, my confidence and self esteem. He blocked me so many times, he kept leaving me and his child. He was still trying to leave our marriage, he bad mouth me to everyone, laughed at my pain, he didn’t care about how I felt and prioritize the girl over me, kept lying to me and I’ve lost so much weight during this time due to depression and stressed. Fast forward to today we are ok and he does not want to leave this marriage and he wants to make things work and everything between us seems back to normal but I’m still very much hurt I feel like the healing process was hard because it’s been rushed and swept under the rug, he doesn’t like talking about it, or doesn’t know the severity of what he’s done, and he just wants things to be back to normal. He hasn’t been very considerate and sensitive to me at all during all this and I just don’t feel the same about him or feel like he’s putting much effort in to win my heart back or just make up for what he’s done. I feel like he should be on his best behavior for the rest of his life and just owes
Me the world after the trauma he put me through. I feel lately we haven’t been getting along and it makes me just want to leave him because why should I put up with him after everything he put me through? I just don’t know what to say or do anymore I feel stuck and at a lost.
My husband cheated on me !
Hi, I feel very depressed and is searching for some support, comfort and guidance during this difficult time. Long story short, it was my birthday this past spring and my husband and I got into a pretty bad fight over parenting. Wouldn’t be the first time we had disagreements over parenting or just regular arguments in general. So anyways my husband got so upset after this he left me at home on my birthday with our plans now ruined and he went to a strip club to go cheat on me. We wasn’t speaking since my birthday and he decided he no longer wanted to be with me and he wanted a separation not a divorce, within this week of not speaking he contacted women from his past, specifically the one he lost his virginity to and he started hanging out with her, going on dates, had her in our car, etc… next Month is now his birthday and she planned his birthday, something intimate like a spa place and couples massage and then of course it led to staying at a hotel where he had unprotected sexual intercourse with her. My heart is forever wounded, I have never been so sad shocked hurt in my entire life. I have never been in such disbelief. During this time not only did he cheat on me but he also just destroyed any life I had in me, my confidence and self esteem. He blocked me so many times, he kept leaving me and his child. He was still trying to leave our marriage, he bad mouth me to everyone, laughed at my pain, he didn’t care about how I felt and prioritize the girl over me, kept lying to me and I’ve lost so much weight during this time due to depression and stressed. Fast forward to today we are ok and he does not want to leave this marriage and he wants to make things work and everything between us seems back to normal but I’m still very much hurt I feel like the healing process was hard because it’s been rushed and swept under the rug, he doesn’t like talking about it, or doesn’t know the severity of what he’s done, and he just wants things to be back to normal. He hasn’t been very considerate and sensitive to me at all during all this and I just don’t feel the same about him or feel like he’s putting much effort in to win my heart back or just make up for what he’s done. I feel like he should be on his best behavior for the rest of his life and just owes
Me the world after the trauma he put me through. I feel lately we haven’t been getting along and it makes me just want to leave him because why should I put up with him after everything he put me through? I just don’t know what to say or do anymore I feel stuck and at a lost.