After my husband told me of his emotional affair with a work colleague I made a pact with myself. I was not going to do anything that compromised my morals, values and principles. I was going to treat him as I would like to be treated. I realized that the only person's behavior I could control was my own. He now has to live with the knowledge that he was unfaithful, he betrayed his marriage vows, his values and his professionalism. He became emotionally abusive in the aftermath of the affair and continued to blame me for some time (more justifications) We are still together and working on our marriage. I am proud of how I have conducted myself. He will have to live with his behavior
Integrity
After my husband told me of his emotional affair with a work colleague I made a pact with myself. I was not going to do anything that compromised my morals, values and principles. I was going to treat him as I would like to be treated. I realized that the only person's behavior I could control was my own. He now has to live with the knowledge that he was unfaithful, he betrayed his marriage vows, his values and his professionalism. He became emotionally abusive in the aftermath of the affair and continued to blame me for some time (more justifications) We are still together and working on our marriage. I am proud of how I have conducted myself. He will have to live with his behavior