Appreciation

I’m thankful for your honesty here. I don’t believe that this journey is gentle on either side of the trauma of infidelity. I’m struggling with letting my husband know my pain without shaming him or making myself feel worse because I want my concerns to be heard. I’m not going to bury my head in the sand anymore. I’m wanting to heal from the trauma of the years of deception. I want the abracadabra wand for letting go of the heavy baggage from the years of lies. Trusting once again? How does one do this after being in a relationship that wasn’t the real deal for the unfaithful?