I am approaching that year anniversary when I was told about the affairs. What came out of her mouth at first was that I caused her infidelities. It took me about 10 months of feeling depressed and anxious that I could not change enough to keep her from a fourth affair. I saw her complete the 5 Rs outlined above and believe she has made changes to keep her away from another affair. What got me out of my depression though was the full knowledge that I did not cause her infidelity.
I am approaching that year
I am approaching that year anniversary when I was told about the affairs. What came out of her mouth at first was that I caused her infidelities. It took me about 10 months of feeling depressed and anxious that I could not change enough to keep her from a fourth affair. I saw her complete the 5 Rs outlined above and believe she has made changes to keep her away from another affair. What got me out of my depression though was the full knowledge that I did not cause her infidelity.