hi 1dp. thank you for the kind words. it sure could be. we love to blame to push away our own guilt and our own shame. it's tough to know without talking to her, but it definitely could be what's going on. whenever we blame, we're not safe and we're looking to make ourselves feel better. certainly when we blame we are denying what we've done and how we've hurt our spouse and how we've transgressed our own moral code.
could be for sure
hi 1dp. thank you for the kind words. it sure could be. we love to blame to push away our own guilt and our own shame. it's tough to know without talking to her, but it definitely could be what's going on. whenever we blame, we're not safe and we're looking to make ourselves feel better. certainly when we blame we are denying what we've done and how we've hurt our spouse and how we've transgressed our own moral code.