I am a betrayed spouse and I listened to your complete video blog and anxiously await part two. One comment I would like to make is that I too am struggling with forgiving myself. It doesn’t seem to matter how many times I hear “it’s not your fault” I still FEEL those same feeling of self-loathing, shame, anger, disgust as you describe and I have heard from my spouse. If I feel this way there may be other betrayed spouses who are struggling with this also. For me, this issue is not adequately addressed or is minimized. I suspect you list of topics to cover in your video blog is quite long but could it please be added to the list?
Thank you,
Forgiving yourself
I am a betrayed spouse and I listened to your complete video blog and anxiously await part two. One comment I would like to make is that I too am struggling with forgiving myself. It doesn’t seem to matter how many times I hear “it’s not your fault” I still FEEL those same feeling of self-loathing, shame, anger, disgust as you describe and I have heard from my spouse. If I feel this way there may be other betrayed spouses who are struggling with this also. For me, this issue is not adequately addressed or is minimized. I suspect you list of topics to cover in your video blog is quite long but could it please be added to the list?
Thank you,