I struggle with this, too. The card aisle is a trigger for me now. All of the reminders of occasions that won’t happen. I believe that I was able to let go of my UH’s first physical affair 27+ years ago. He became better at hiding his lies and addictions for so many years going forward to now. This journey to forgiveness now seems so much more difficult because of being left in the dark thinking that I had a decent marriage relationship with my husband. Getting healing and healthy for myself, let alone for our relationship, is daunting. Finding my ability to once again dream and believe that there is a wonderful big world out there? Wow, it’s making me take a deep breath and realize that I have more work to do getting to this place of dreaming again and wanting more for my future life. Thank you for keeping me in on this possibility going forward. To dream again. . .
Cards and friend
I struggle with this, too. The card aisle is a trigger for me now. All of the reminders of occasions that won’t happen. I believe that I was able to let go of my UH’s first physical affair 27+ years ago. He became better at hiding his lies and addictions for so many years going forward to now. This journey to forgiveness now seems so much more difficult because of being left in the dark thinking that I had a decent marriage relationship with my husband. Getting healing and healthy for myself, let alone for our relationship, is daunting. Finding my ability to once again dream and believe that there is a wonderful big world out there? Wow, it’s making me take a deep breath and realize that I have more work to do getting to this place of dreaming again and wanting more for my future life. Thank you for keeping me in on this possibility going forward. To dream again. . .