to me it appears you'll need to go all in. the best help, the best program and go all in like a poker game and give it one last chance. if not, i'm fearful of what the future may look like. i'm also fearful of what life will remain if you don't perhaps draw a line in the sand and say something like 'we need expert help....i'm not going to live like this the rest of my life and marriage.' I would also then ask him to do something like our ems weekend virtually and commit to it. these two articles will help with an approach on how to handle it with him: https://www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founders/how-get-mate-cooperate and this one too: https://www.affairrecovery.com/survivors/samuel/they-get-say-no-life-going-change
sounds like you have to go all in my friend...
to me it appears you'll need to go all in. the best help, the best program and go all in like a poker game and give it one last chance. if not, i'm fearful of what the future may look like. i'm also fearful of what life will remain if you don't perhaps draw a line in the sand and say something like 'we need expert help....i'm not going to live like this the rest of my life and marriage.' I would also then ask him to do something like our ems weekend virtually and commit to it. these two articles will help with an approach on how to handle it with him: https://www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founders/how-get-mate-cooperate and this one too: https://www.affairrecovery.com/survivors/samuel/they-get-say-no-life-going-change