Affair Recovery

My husband to date talks about loving me. The same way he talked while cheating on me. I can now understand that " his self-addiction" is the problem. He took satisfaction from everywhere. He used me, used the affair partner. He said that he will do ALL he can no matter what to make mw happy but he refuses to unlock his devises and release passwords. He looks pained but does not want in anyway to be reminded of his infidelity. I find him a bit cold and he seems to find his own company better. He has started his old habits of late nights without even the courtesy of informing me. I leave him to God to judge. He is definitely still self absorbed and refuses to hear or talk to anyone. Thanks Sam!