Affair Recovery

I had to chuckle, because I have been given as a "gift," bad advice, as we all have, even for no reason at all. However, for this infedility bit, wow! "If you were a better wife, he would have stayed home...Let me show you how to be good in bed, I will teach you how to enjoy sex(not that I didn't enjoy it, it was just said that I didn't)...Put on something sexy and/or nothing at all and meet him at the door, he will never think of or look at another woman...if you were more of a woman, smiled more (keep in mind many who know me call me 'sunshine'), put on perfume and xx-rated after that, he would stay home...you are too much of a mouth---shut up and just smile...get over it you are not the only woman whose husband has gone out on them...stop over reacting....don't be so dramatic it happens to everyone... and my personal fave, You were born to be a slave to this family and now your husband. So keep in mind, you have no dreams, no feelings, no needs, no talents, no desires and your job is to simply lay there for your husband. " And those are the easy ones that I feel comfortable sharing. Hope they are not TMI.