This article gave me hope and I felt validated with my steps after reading what Samantha did to change. I too have tried to understand my role in our relationship pre-affair and what he was lacking from me. I am trying but I am also desperately insecure which makes him miserable and not understanding why I just cant trust him only weeks since the ending of the affair. I was glad to read this article and realize that maybe, just maybe, I am on the right path.
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