hi onthefence, the reality is, him living with the other woman hurts the cause. it doesn't make it impossible, but it's difficult nonetheless. i don't think it's hopeless, but he would need to do something like the ems weekend with you and sit down with therapists who are experts and that could help him reason through some things internally. have you filed for divorce at all? do you have kids? how much communication does he have with you right now?
tough call....but.....
hi onthefence, the reality is, him living with the other woman hurts the cause. it doesn't make it impossible, but it's difficult nonetheless. i don't think it's hopeless, but he would need to do something like the ems weekend with you and sit down with therapists who are experts and that could help him reason through some things internally. have you filed for divorce at all? do you have kids? how much communication does he have with you right now?