I just wanted to add that in a marriage there are two and in the case of infidility the two are broken in order to heal that marriage it takes both to become healthy to have any hope. I am the faithful spouse and have read many of the post hear and as ll are worthy of the gift and what makes it even tougher is that me the husband am doing well but I can tell my wife still struggles with what has happened. She is still to this day almost two years later unable to talk about what happened just shuts right down. How can we really build a safe and hopefully marriage unless we both kind of know why and how things happened. My wife knows she has problems we went through EMSO but the other couple with the unfaithful wife dropped out well before the end along with one of other couples started MFL and both the other two couples filed for divorce. We have 5 kids who do not know the youngest special needs two in college she does not work we home school so there is no money for anything else
I know my wife would do the course if it was a gift but she would refuse it we had to spend money on it. Any way I just hope thst maybe in the future you might want to add a gift of "Hope for Healing " because sometimes the inner pain of the unfaithful one can add to the pain of the faithful also.
Thank You for the gifts you have shared with so many.
David
How about "Hope for Healing"
I just wanted to add that in a marriage there are two and in the case of infidility the two are broken in order to heal that marriage it takes both to become healthy to have any hope. I am the faithful spouse and have read many of the post hear and as ll are worthy of the gift and what makes it even tougher is that me the husband am doing well but I can tell my wife still struggles with what has happened. She is still to this day almost two years later unable to talk about what happened just shuts right down. How can we really build a safe and hopefully marriage unless we both kind of know why and how things happened. My wife knows she has problems we went through EMSO but the other couple with the unfaithful wife dropped out well before the end along with one of other couples started MFL and both the other two couples filed for divorce. We have 5 kids who do not know the youngest special needs two in college she does not work we home school so there is no money for anything else
I know my wife would do the course if it was a gift but she would refuse it we had to spend money on it. Any way I just hope thst maybe in the future you might want to add a gift of "Hope for Healing " because sometimes the inner pain of the unfaithful one can add to the pain of the faithful also.
Thank You for the gifts you have shared with so many.
David