My husband and I will be married for 9 years in May. In the midst of year one, I found out through some emails of inappropriate pictures that my husband was cheating on me with a co-worker. Worst yet, she was someone that I invited into my home to stay until she could get her own apt. I later found love notes from her to my husband about how to get me out of the picture. We survived that infidelity by separating and telling very few people. It was hell. We moved back in together and for four years we lived with his parents. Things were not perfect and I know now that I was dealing with a hefty dose of trauma. This December I found out through the message from another woman that my husband had been cheating on me again. This time, he openly repented before our clergy (he had not repented at all before). He finally came clean and told us that he had, in fact, had multiple affairs throughout the entire duration of the marriage. I am so glad I have found Affair Recovery. It has kept me from being in a state of utter ruin. My husband is seeking accountability with leadership and peers and honestly, we need hope. We are financially strapped and this would be a perfect resource to help me walk through this chaos. Thank you for reading this. Even typing it is cathartic. Knowing that I am not alone and others have walked this hard road before me.
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My husband and I will be married for 9 years in May. In the midst of year one, I found out through some emails of inappropriate pictures that my husband was cheating on me with a co-worker. Worst yet, she was someone that I invited into my home to stay until she could get her own apt. I later found love notes from her to my husband about how to get me out of the picture. We survived that infidelity by separating and telling very few people. It was hell. We moved back in together and for four years we lived with his parents. Things were not perfect and I know now that I was dealing with a hefty dose of trauma. This December I found out through the message from another woman that my husband had been cheating on me again. This time, he openly repented before our clergy (he had not repented at all before). He finally came clean and told us that he had, in fact, had multiple affairs throughout the entire duration of the marriage. I am so glad I have found Affair Recovery. It has kept me from being in a state of utter ruin. My husband is seeking accountability with leadership and peers and honestly, we need hope. We are financially strapped and this would be a perfect resource to help me walk through this chaos. Thank you for reading this. Even typing it is cathartic. Knowing that I am not alone and others have walked this hard road before me.