Harboring hope has always

Harboring hope has always sounded like a wondeful tool for healing but I am afraid to heal without my husband. Like they say, grow together or grow apart! I have been watching countless hours of videos and reading all kinds of materials. Including a book I bought for my unfaithful spouse. However, I'm at a point that I feel I can't trust. How do ever trust anyone again? I trust God and myself. We need healing if our marriage is going to survive. But I no longer have the confidence needed to decide where to turn for help. I start personal therapy on Monday and even though it has been over a year since Dday(as you call it) I have always had the feeling I never got the whole story. How do help my husband understand he needs healing too?