My D day was July 2019, the affair was back in 2004-2005. The hard part is that he can't remember most of it. He knew it was some calls, but when I confronted him with the phone bill(s) it was up to 7x a day during the peak of the emotional affair. It's the unknown that's eating away at me more than anything. I ask why and he (as expected) doesn't have an answer. If it was just wanting a friend as he said, why hide it! All this makes zero sense. Then we added on the 2.5 years of secret porn. He has changed everything about how he talks to me, interacts with women, he he conducts everything. I appreciate that too, but I can't just jump to the end. I need to have the picture filled in. I deserve that.
Emotional Affair
My D day was July 2019, the affair was back in 2004-2005. The hard part is that he can't remember most of it. He knew it was some calls, but when I confronted him with the phone bill(s) it was up to 7x a day during the peak of the emotional affair. It's the unknown that's eating away at me more than anything. I ask why and he (as expected) doesn't have an answer. If it was just wanting a friend as he said, why hide it! All this makes zero sense. Then we added on the 2.5 years of secret porn. He has changed everything about how he talks to me, interacts with women, he he conducts everything. I appreciate that too, but I can't just jump to the end. I need to have the picture filled in. I deserve that.