We are 3.75 years past D-day and have received counseling from your typical marital counselor that focused on communication, respect, identifying feelings and how to express them. Not one counselor grasped my need for complete transparency, total honesty, or full disclosure. Nor did we delve into the whys about my SA husband cheating. I have learned more on affairrecovery.com than from the hundreds of hours spent in a marriage counselor's office. I feel the marriage counselors we saw have done us more harm than good. We are on the brink of divorce. With or without my husband's support, I am desperately trying to save our marriage and stop my hemorrhaging.
I Need to Stop the Hemorrhaging...with or without him
We are 3.75 years past D-day and have received counseling from your typical marital counselor that focused on communication, respect, identifying feelings and how to express them. Not one counselor grasped my need for complete transparency, total honesty, or full disclosure. Nor did we delve into the whys about my SA husband cheating. I have learned more on affairrecovery.com than from the hundreds of hours spent in a marriage counselor's office. I feel the marriage counselors we saw have done us more harm than good. We are on the brink of divorce. With or without my husband's support, I am desperately trying to save our marriage and stop my hemorrhaging.