Hi to all. My unfaithful husband and I went through EMS weekend April of 2023. After that for about a year we attended the weekly small group calls post EMS. However, during all of EMS and the group calls after I never felt like my UH was really "in it." He was just going through the motions. I even told him that during our EMS sessions. I felt true emotion when the other guys in the group read their homework aloud. I did not feel emotion and true remorse and desire to change from my husband. Well, as it turns out, he was still acting out with multiple women leading up to EMS and after EMS. Wow! shock! Why participate in EMS if you have no intentions of changing your behavior??!! I would love to participate in harboring hope to help heal the pain and anger, figure out what I want to do next, and join a community of women in similar situations.
Lying through EMS
Hi to all. My unfaithful husband and I went through EMS weekend April of 2023. After that for about a year we attended the weekly small group calls post EMS. However, during all of EMS and the group calls after I never felt like my UH was really "in it." He was just going through the motions. I even told him that during our EMS sessions. I felt true emotion when the other guys in the group read their homework aloud. I did not feel emotion and true remorse and desire to change from my husband. Well, as it turns out, he was still acting out with multiple women leading up to EMS and after EMS. Wow! shock! Why participate in EMS if you have no intentions of changing your behavior??!! I would love to participate in harboring hope to help heal the pain and anger, figure out what I want to do next, and join a community of women in similar situations.