Alumnus. Unfaithful- Its been 2 years and a long road. However, through every trial, we have made it through. It has not been an easy journey and it is far from over. I am blessed with an amazing partner and she is my rock.
The best advice I can give anyone is this:
1. Be absolutely truthful during the disclosure portion of your journey. I was not and thought it would just "go away". Hint: it didn't and she found out. This caused us to start from square one. It was absolutely horrible.
2. Please utilize the resources this program provides. Everyone has been amazing and really helpful. Their caring is genuine.
3. Choose your words carefully and be respectful. NEVER say, "Can't we just move on?!" Note: I have never uttered these words. But remind myself everyday. Forgiveness and trust is wonderful however, it must be earned. I know what I'm capable of and never want to be that person again.
Trust in the journey. Believe me when I say, "There is a light on the horizon. There will never be an end of the tunnel but my journey is with my best friend. My wife. Through this process, we have made life-long friends. God has truly blessed us. Thank you Rick and team!
We can see the light!
Alumnus. Unfaithful- Its been 2 years and a long road. However, through every trial, we have made it through. It has not been an easy journey and it is far from over. I am blessed with an amazing partner and she is my rock.
The best advice I can give anyone is this:
1. Be absolutely truthful during the disclosure portion of your journey. I was not and thought it would just "go away". Hint: it didn't and she found out. This caused us to start from square one. It was absolutely horrible.
2. Please utilize the resources this program provides. Everyone has been amazing and really helpful. Their caring is genuine.
3. Choose your words carefully and be respectful. NEVER say, "Can't we just move on?!" Note: I have never uttered these words. But remind myself everyday. Forgiveness and trust is wonderful however, it must be earned. I know what I'm capable of and never want to be that person again.
Trust in the journey. Believe me when I say, "There is a light on the horizon. There will never be an end of the tunnel but my journey is with my best friend. My wife. Through this process, we have made life-long friends. God has truly blessed us. Thank you Rick and team!