When my husband finally confessed to cheating on me for our entire 12 year marriage, I'm the one who suggested meeting with the pastor. I also found the marriage counselor. I bought the books. He repented to God and to me. He read the books. Now he feels he's done his part. I have no one to talk to because I've kept his dirty little secret. He's not interested in hearing my pain. I suppose he feels it's my responsibility to heal, and I must heal alone. He did the crime and I get to do the time...... totally alone. Tonight I told him that I had a lot on my mind. He never even asked what was bothering me or if I wanted to talk about it. I'm in the bedroom crying and looking for things like this to help me heal while he's in the living room reading a horror book. Tonight is the night I'm taking my life back. I'm calling a lawyer Monday morning. All I needed was for him to show some sort of care or empathy, but he just doesn't care enough.
I wish my husband cared enough.
When my husband finally confessed to cheating on me for our entire 12 year marriage, I'm the one who suggested meeting with the pastor. I also found the marriage counselor. I bought the books. He repented to God and to me. He read the books. Now he feels he's done his part. I have no one to talk to because I've kept his dirty little secret. He's not interested in hearing my pain. I suppose he feels it's my responsibility to heal, and I must heal alone. He did the crime and I get to do the time...... totally alone. Tonight I told him that I had a lot on my mind. He never even asked what was bothering me or if I wanted to talk about it. I'm in the bedroom crying and looking for things like this to help me heal while he's in the living room reading a horror book. Tonight is the night I'm taking my life back. I'm calling a lawyer Monday morning. All I needed was for him to show some sort of care or empathy, but he just doesn't care enough.