One more comment---My husband says he don't have to answer to no one. The affair is over and that is it. He just wants me to pretend everything is ok just like his mom did. He tells me if I want a divorce that is fine, he does not. How cruel can you get? I feel so stuck because I don't have the money to move out and he will not. He stays in the basement and I stay upstairs. I hate the fact that I live in a no fault state where the innocent one pays all the way around.
This Stonewalling they do.
One more comment---My husband says he don't have to answer to no one. The affair is over and that is it. He just wants me to pretend everything is ok just like his mom did. He tells me if I want a divorce that is fine, he does not. How cruel can you get? I feel so stuck because I don't have the money to move out and he will not. He stays in the basement and I stay upstairs. I hate the fact that I live in a no fault state where the innocent one pays all the way around.