This sounds so much like my husband and he is in denial. I have so much proof but he still denies. He still lies and has lied to our kids and they know it. Two of our 3 daughters will have nothing to do with him. This is the icing on the cake after years of walking on eggshells. These are passive aggressive personality individuals or emotional abusers. My husband has stuffed his emotions down so there is very little conscience.
He does not want to answer to no one. He has so many friends but not one true friend. They are cruel and they blame everyone else for their
problems. They are never happy and live with eternal misery. Most of the time their upbringing is the cause for this. It is a learned behavior and and like alcoholism, they have to recognize it to change it. Hard to do. I have and continually pray for God to give me the strength and wisdom to do the right thing. I don't want a divorce but I will not live with dishonesty any longer. He just stays in the basement like everything is ok. It is so sad and his mother still enables him. I realize now I have been a rescuer to him all these years. I have stopped enabling him hoping for him to wake up. So far nothing. Look up passive aggressive on internet. There are all kinds of information.
Stonewalling
This sounds so much like my husband and he is in denial. I have so much proof but he still denies. He still lies and has lied to our kids and they know it. Two of our 3 daughters will have nothing to do with him. This is the icing on the cake after years of walking on eggshells. These are passive aggressive personality individuals or emotional abusers. My husband has stuffed his emotions down so there is very little conscience.
He does not want to answer to no one. He has so many friends but not one true friend. They are cruel and they blame everyone else for their
problems. They are never happy and live with eternal misery. Most of the time their upbringing is the cause for this. It is a learned behavior and and like alcoholism, they have to recognize it to change it. Hard to do. I have and continually pray for God to give me the strength and wisdom to do the right thing. I don't want a divorce but I will not live with dishonesty any longer. He just stays in the basement like everything is ok. It is so sad and his mother still enables him. I realize now I have been a rescuer to him all these years. I have stopped enabling him hoping for him to wake up. So far nothing. Look up passive aggressive on internet. There are all kinds of information.