My ex and I got divorced because I found him cheating from the beginning of us dating and through out our short marriage. I found out about 15 months into our marriage that he actually had slept with at least three women, had an emotional affair with an ex gf that had involved sexual contact and had been involved on numerous sex sites and dating apps. I was pregnant with our second child. I was so hurt. At first I tried to stifle my feelings then, I tried to talk and ai was calm but he told me to just get over it. I became infuriated. He continued contact with his affair partner, ex gf from school. In January 2018 I divorced him. He of coyrse went to be with his AP. Then as my die date approached he came back insisting he wanted me and would change. I gave it another chance and of course he tefused to look at this website, refused any website speaking of help toward healing. No surprise he continued cheating every couple of months caught talking to women emotionally, sexting. I had no self esteem, I just stayed but was always angry. He continued for several more years. Until 2022 he was willing to give me access to his phone, passwords, putting a pin on his phone so he cant access adult websites. But he still contacts his ex afdair prtner at lest three times a year. Im really mad, he says he doesnt have romantic love but I caught him telling her he wished he had stayed with her and made a mistake choosing me. I just want to quit. Although he has made some progress its not alot in the grand scheme of things. He still refuses to not form close friendships with opposite sex at work. I just feel like he is a waste of time and I have wasted my time. Any advice on how to move forward and on with my life. Financially Im strapped. I have helped him buys cars, a house solely in his name. And he isnt very good with saving his money and Ive had to step in and save him which has drained me of any savings. Right now I cannot rock the boat, I feel like I have to lie or he will kick me out and I will have nothing. But I am so emotionally distraught living with him. He was caught in November 2023 writing his ex AP againstating how he missed her and wished he chose her because he was mad I wouldnt loan him money. Im in such anguish. I feel like I could just die, but I have my kids.
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My ex and I got divorced because I found him cheating from the beginning of us dating and through out our short marriage. I found out about 15 months into our marriage that he actually had slept with at least three women, had an emotional affair with an ex gf that had involved sexual contact and had been involved on numerous sex sites and dating apps. I was pregnant with our second child. I was so hurt. At first I tried to stifle my feelings then, I tried to talk and ai was calm but he told me to just get over it. I became infuriated. He continued contact with his affair partner, ex gf from school. In January 2018 I divorced him. He of coyrse went to be with his AP. Then as my die date approached he came back insisting he wanted me and would change. I gave it another chance and of course he tefused to look at this website, refused any website speaking of help toward healing. No surprise he continued cheating every couple of months caught talking to women emotionally, sexting. I had no self esteem, I just stayed but was always angry. He continued for several more years. Until 2022 he was willing to give me access to his phone, passwords, putting a pin on his phone so he cant access adult websites. But he still contacts his ex afdair prtner at lest three times a year. Im really mad, he says he doesnt have romantic love but I caught him telling her he wished he had stayed with her and made a mistake choosing me. I just want to quit. Although he has made some progress its not alot in the grand scheme of things. He still refuses to not form close friendships with opposite sex at work. I just feel like he is a waste of time and I have wasted my time. Any advice on how to move forward and on with my life. Financially Im strapped. I have helped him buys cars, a house solely in his name. And he isnt very good with saving his money and Ive had to step in and save him which has drained me of any savings. Right now I cannot rock the boat, I feel like I have to lie or he will kick me out and I will have nothing. But I am so emotionally distraught living with him. He was caught in November 2023 writing his ex AP againstating how he missed her and wished he chose her because he was mad I wouldnt loan him money. Im in such anguish. I feel like I could just die, but I have my kids.