thank you Rick... merciful article... I was involved in HH a little over three years ago in the crisis and cruelty of my former husband's affair, insistency of divorce, renouncing of his faith and family and his marriage to his affair partner after 30+ years of marriage... she was his high school girlfriend....his last words to me were "I never loved you and I always loved her"... in the last 6-8 months I have accepted that this situation is maybe as it should be... My ex really wasn't happy with me or family... I knew him to be genuinely happy with his work... as for he and she, their promises were made in the heat of foolishness and deep sinfulness and their reality is going to always be different than their fantasy... I know that she was a desperate woman who intended engagement with a married man, lived with him and then married him... I have generally not been angry at her because she was never a part of the covenant of God in my marriage concerning me... My anger has been minimal at him because his life was full of deceptive in the latter years of our marriage and there was much anger and hostility between the two of us at that time... however lack of anger is not necessarily forgiveness... on going prayer between God and I makes forgiveness probable for me... no magic, no easy but consistent prayer that leads me to the heart of God and His Word where I find transforming forgiveness to be tangible for myself and them...
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thank you Rick... merciful article... I was involved in HH a little over three years ago in the crisis and cruelty of my former husband's affair, insistency of divorce, renouncing of his faith and family and his marriage to his affair partner after 30+ years of marriage... she was his high school girlfriend....his last words to me were "I never loved you and I always loved her"... in the last 6-8 months I have accepted that this situation is maybe as it should be... My ex really wasn't happy with me or family... I knew him to be genuinely happy with his work... as for he and she, their promises were made in the heat of foolishness and deep sinfulness and their reality is going to always be different than their fantasy... I know that she was a desperate woman who intended engagement with a married man, lived with him and then married him... I have generally not been angry at her because she was never a part of the covenant of God in my marriage concerning me... My anger has been minimal at him because his life was full of deceptive in the latter years of our marriage and there was much anger and hostility between the two of us at that time... however lack of anger is not necessarily forgiveness... on going prayer between God and I makes forgiveness probable for me... no magic, no easy but consistent prayer that leads me to the heart of God and His Word where I find transforming forgiveness to be tangible for myself and them...