I really think there is a big difference here between who was betrayed male or female. Our sex life is much better now then it was before my wife's affairs and is getting better all the time and it is under a year but I was able to understand how important is was for me to be able to heal our marriage. I do think that in most cases but not all men have a higher need for that closeness that one feels from sex. It is that need I think that acts as an added incentive to learn to over come hesitations. To me it was the real key to hope for a better marriage. I also did not dig deep I did not need to know all so images were not problems that were not controllable. I also understood that I needed to add more love and. Passion into our sex life if I was ever going to pull my wife back from were she was.it has been very freeing in many ways because I have become more open about our sex more talkative in an a temp to brake down any barriers that may have been erected. To say that we are there would not be all together true but it is going to be fun trying to get there.
I really think there is a big
I really think there is a big difference here between who was betrayed male or female. Our sex life is much better now then it was before my wife's affairs and is getting better all the time and it is under a year but I was able to understand how important is was for me to be able to heal our marriage. I do think that in most cases but not all men have a higher need for that closeness that one feels from sex. It is that need I think that acts as an added incentive to learn to over come hesitations. To me it was the real key to hope for a better marriage. I also did not dig deep I did not need to know all so images were not problems that were not controllable. I also understood that I needed to add more love and. Passion into our sex life if I was ever going to pull my wife back from were she was.it has been very freeing in many ways because I have become more open about our sex more talkative in an a temp to brake down any barriers that may have been erected. To say that we are there would not be all together true but it is going to be fun trying to get there.