I am so sorry for what you and your husband are going through. Shame can really grab a hold of you and suck you in. And you are right-healing is slowed or stopped completely. I am praying that your husband can rise above his shame and put his focus on you and your pain. There are numerous videos in the AR library that could help him realize that, although important and valid, his feelings and issues need to take a backseat to yours during recovery. I feel your frustration and sadness and I wish you hope and healing.
islandmiha
I am so sorry for what you and your husband are going through. Shame can really grab a hold of you and suck you in. And you are right-healing is slowed or stopped completely. I am praying that your husband can rise above his shame and put his focus on you and your pain. There are numerous videos in the AR library that could help him realize that, although important and valid, his feelings and issues need to take a backseat to yours during recovery. I feel your frustration and sadness and I wish you hope and healing.