My husband and I are working to restore our marriage. His affair occurred after 30 years of faithful marriage . My problem is how do we make special moments special again ? The things that were special to us making love, dinner on the beach, long car rides , etc etc have now become things that I no longer think of as making me feel special . They are now things he did with her too. How do I overcome that ? He says they are special because they are with me and is us so thankful that I am forgiving and still willing to be with him. He says He feels very special, I don't.
Feeling Special
My husband and I are working to restore our marriage. His affair occurred after 30 years of faithful marriage . My problem is how do we make special moments special again ? The things that were special to us making love, dinner on the beach, long car rides , etc etc have now become things that I no longer think of as making me feel special . They are now things he did with her too. How do I overcome that ? He says they are special because they are with me and is us so thankful that I am forgiving and still willing to be with him. He says He feels very special, I don't.