This blog could not have come at a better time. I am the hurt spouse. We have worked through a lot of stuff and are doing the EMS online, however I am just sad. The grief that I feel is like a heavy blanket. I think that it scares my husband because I have a history of just cutting people that have wounded me out of my life. I now realize that this is not the answer, well in some cases they are because some people won't do what it takes to me safe. He has done what is needed to be safe. I was just wondering how long did it take for your wife to work through the grief? And how long did it take you to realize you needed to grieve?
Thank you for the work that you are doing. You videos help me SO MUCH. I have noticed that several of the other blogs are not active, but just reading the old post are helpful. I so appreciate everyone that is willing to share their story to help others. I hope one day my story will help someone else.
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This blog could not have come at a better time. I am the hurt spouse. We have worked through a lot of stuff and are doing the EMS online, however I am just sad. The grief that I feel is like a heavy blanket. I think that it scares my husband because I have a history of just cutting people that have wounded me out of my life. I now realize that this is not the answer, well in some cases they are because some people won't do what it takes to me safe. He has done what is needed to be safe. I was just wondering how long did it take for your wife to work through the grief? And how long did it take you to realize you needed to grieve?
Thank you for the work that you are doing. You videos help me SO MUCH. I have noticed that several of the other blogs are not active, but just reading the old post are helpful. I so appreciate everyone that is willing to share their story to help others. I hope one day my story will help someone else.