very kind of you my friend. thank you for sharing such encouragement with me as it means more than you're probably aware of. i do all i can to be helpful and provide perspective and your comment encourages me and lifts me to carry on.
these articles will help him if he will read them:
https://www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/ending-an-affair-lock-the-door-part-one
https://www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/ending-an-affair-lock-the-door-part-two
https://www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/ending-an-affair-close-the-door
https://www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/ending-an-affair-throw-away-the-key
https://www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/ending-an-affair-letting-go-and-moving-on
you may want to read them too for perspective.
i'll be praying and thank you again for taking time to comment.
anonymous....thank you