I have a few things that are straight up deal breakers. And it was worded for me like this: you have choices. We all do. I choose to say faithful and honor my commitment in all areas. I am choosing to believe that you made some bad choices without taking time to think through how your actions have a direct effect on other. I am choosing to forgive you and trying my hardest to work through it all. But should you choose to A) lie to me B) cheat in anyway C) contact any AP D) not show total transparency then you are choosing a divorce. There will be no discussion. There will be no option left.
However he drags his feet on recovery work and I think without it than the likely hood of him relapsing is so great that I find myself pulling back, putting a guard up, and bracing myself for another bomb to destroy my world.
Another great article Samuel. Thank you for your honestly.
I am at this point.
I have a few things that are straight up deal breakers. And it was worded for me like this: you have choices. We all do. I choose to say faithful and honor my commitment in all areas. I am choosing to believe that you made some bad choices without taking time to think through how your actions have a direct effect on other. I am choosing to forgive you and trying my hardest to work through it all. But should you choose to A) lie to me B) cheat in anyway C) contact any AP D) not show total transparency then you are choosing a divorce. There will be no discussion. There will be no option left.
However he drags his feet on recovery work and I think without it than the likely hood of him relapsing is so great that I find myself pulling back, putting a guard up, and bracing myself for another bomb to destroy my world.
Another great article Samuel. Thank you for your honestly.