This analogy was great and is exactly the point I am at in my situation... I have had a lot of disappointments and heartache in my life, but this by far has been the most devastating and even debilitating thing which has ever happened to me. I know if I am not able to "cut the anchor" to some of the things I am doing like reading old text, comparing dates, times, pictures, etc. that there is no way for me to survive, let alone my marriage surviving.
Anchor cutting
This analogy was great and is exactly the point I am at in my situation... I have had a lot of disappointments and heartache in my life, but this by far has been the most devastating and even debilitating thing which has ever happened to me. I know if I am not able to "cut the anchor" to some of the things I am doing like reading old text, comparing dates, times, pictures, etc. that there is no way for me to survive, let alone my marriage surviving.