I am at 16 months from D Day tried to get him into counseling as he didn't want to talk about it and that last for 3 sessions. He says he is changing on his own and doesn't need help from the porn addiction and affairs both physical and emotional. I had endured trickle truth all the way up until this year so 14 months, and I still believe there is more. I have read books, and watched videos, and followed your blogs and he tells me that all this will just make me worse. I do see changes in him, but not that will last. You cannot just stop doing everything you do and be happy. I have no feelings of love for him, and what makes it worse is the horrible things he told these women about me ( lies) and it was to everyone of them as they told me the same thing. He said he did it to make himself feel better. Not sure if this is a normal thing, but I just wish I knew why this happened, why he can't talk about it and why he says he can't remember anything or doesn't know why he did the things he did. 25 years of Marriage, and I am ready to give up.
Unfaithful Spouse wants to forget it
I am at 16 months from D Day tried to get him into counseling as he didn't want to talk about it and that last for 3 sessions. He says he is changing on his own and doesn't need help from the porn addiction and affairs both physical and emotional. I had endured trickle truth all the way up until this year so 14 months, and I still believe there is more. I have read books, and watched videos, and followed your blogs and he tells me that all this will just make me worse. I do see changes in him, but not that will last. You cannot just stop doing everything you do and be happy. I have no feelings of love for him, and what makes it worse is the horrible things he told these women about me ( lies) and it was to everyone of them as they told me the same thing. He said he did it to make himself feel better. Not sure if this is a normal thing, but I just wish I knew why this happened, why he can't talk about it and why he says he can't remember anything or doesn't know why he did the things he did. 25 years of Marriage, and I am ready to give up.